The primal duties shine aloft like stars; The charities that soothe, and heal, and bless, Are scattered at the feet of man, like flowers. William Wordsworth (1770-1850) Giving Back Growing up, I was taught the value of participating in community more by example than by teaching. Even though I only knew my grandfather Mayer for a few short years, I knew he was not only a joiner but a leader. From his activity in fund-raising for charities, serving on the draft board in World War I, working for our state's government, leading drives to sell war bonds in World War II, being a life-long Rotarian, Mason, being elected to lead the American Optometric Association, and probably plenty of other activities I have no knowledge of, he set a pretty high bar for the family. That all ended in 1948 when he passed away. My dad took up some of his father's calling by choosing, in a much quieter ...